Can you say “YES”!?


Dear Beloved Readers,

I want to take a moment to share something deeply personal with you—something that has been stirring within my heart. It’s about the kind of relationship that changes everything. A relationship that transcends human understanding and brings us into the fullness of who we are meant to be. It’s about intimacy with God.

Imagine a love so profound, so unconditional, that it knows every part of you—the good, the bad, the beautiful, and the broken—and still says, “You are mine, and I choose you.” This is the love God offers to each of us. It’s not a love that demands perfection but one that invites us into a journey of trust, surrender, and transformation.

I think of Mary, who, when faced with a divine calling, asked but one question: “How?” Her swift and willing “yes” to God inspires me to reflect on the depths of her trust and the intimacy she must have shared with Him. Her faith was not just a fleeting belief; it was a profound knowing—a relationship so close that saying “yes” to the impossible felt like the most natural response.

And so, I ask you: What would it look like for you to say “yes” to God in your own life? To lay down the distractions of the world, the fleeting connections, and the contradictory priorities that so often pull us away—and instead, to choose Him wholeheartedly? What if you truly leaned into His invitation to walk in step with Him, not just as a distant deity, but as the very core of your being?

God doesn’t desire mere rituals or surface-level interactions. He longs for you—for your heart, your trust, your vulnerability. He wants to hold your worries, your questions, and your dreams. He wants to walk with you through the highs and the lows, weaving His purpose into every part of your story.

He’s whispering to you, even now: “Why not choose Me? Why not trust Me with every part of who you are? Let us walk together—not as strangers, not as acquaintances, but as one. I will never leave you, never forsake you. I am here—always.”

This is the beauty of intimacy with God. It’s not just a practice; it’s a partnership. It’s letting Him be the first, the center, and the anchor of all you are and all you do. It’s stepping into a love so boundless that it fills every gap, every ache, and every longing.

So, my dear readers, I encourage you to take that step. To open your heart and say, “Yes, God, I choose You.” For in that choice lies the fullness of life—a life not free from challenges, but one where you are never alone. A life where God’s love and purpose envelop you, guiding you to a deeper understanding of who you are and who you are meant to be.

With love and hope,
Scarlett


ASK YOURSELF. LET’S REFLECT


The Power and Beauty of an Intimate Relationship with God

Just as Mary (Luke 1:38) said “yes” to God with complete trust, her relationship with Him serves as an inspiring example of what intimacy with God looks like—an unwavering confidence, a profound connection, and a readiness to surrender to His divine purpose. This intimacy wasn’t born overnight; it stemmed from trust, dependence, and an openness to His spirit.

As humans, we often prioritize relationships with friends, family, and the world around us. While these connections are meaningful, there is one relationship that transcends all others—our relationship with God. Unlike worldly relationships, God’s love is unconditional, unwavering, and deeply personal.

What Does an Intimate Relationship with God Mean?

An intimate relationship with God is not merely about religious rituals or occasional prayers; it’s about daily communion, complete dependence, and a deep trust in His plans. It is choosing to let Him into the very core of your being—to share your fears, joys, struggles, and hopes with Him—just as you would in a close human relationship. It’s allowing Him to guide you, shape you, and walk alongside you through life’s triumphs and trials.

How Do We Achieve It?

Many of us, like Mary, ask “How?” How can we strengthen our bond with God? It begins with a willingness to shift priorities. Here are steps to nurture this relationship:

  1. Dependence and Trust: Surrender your worries and challenges to God, trusting that He can and will handle them with grace and wisdom.
  2. Daily Connection: Spend time in prayer, reflection, and reading scripture—letting His word fill your soul.
  3. Authentic Vulnerability: Be honest and open with God, sharing your inner thoughts and emotions. There’s no need for pretense—He knows your heart.
  4. Shared Journey: Recognize that intimacy with God is a partnership—it’s about becoming one with Him, walking in agreement, and aligning your will to His.

Why Is This Vital?

Without a strong relationship with God, it’s easy to become consumed by the distractions of this world. While family, friends, and worldly endeavors may bring temporary fulfillment, the joy of knowing and walking closely with God is eternal. When we place Him first, every other aspect of life falls into place. He becomes the wellspring of wisdom, love, and strength that empowers all other relationships and pursuits.


Let this message inspire you to read to seek God as you’re first and most important relationship—not just as someone to call on during hardship, but as the ultimate source of hope, peace, and purpose. Just as He reached out to you with the invitation to “date Him” and truly choose Him, He’s extending the invitation to you. It’s a journey of transformation, abundance, and becoming one with the divine.

-Scars Gift-

The Overflowing Jar of Oil and The Faithful Stewardship of Talents


The Overflowing Jar of Oil and The Faithful Stewardship of Talents

In 2 Kings 4:1-7, we encounter the widow whose desperation met the miraculous. The man of God asks her a simple yet deeply probing question: “What do you have in your house?” Her response reveals not just the material lack but also the revelation of faith—she has nothing but a jar of oil. To the natural eye, this might seem insignificant, a mere drop of hope in an ocean of need. Yet, in the Kingdom of God, even the smallest offering can overflow into abundance.

The widow is instructed to borrow vessels and pour what she has. This act—pouring—transcends the physical realm. It is a reminder for us today that pouring into someone’s life carries eternal value. We live in a generation that often equates help with monetary gifts, but the deeper truth is this: God, the ultimate sower, has called us to pour out His supernatural wisdom, strength, and love into others. The jar of oil teaches us to trust that even the smallest resource, when placed in God’s hands, becomes more than enough.

In Matthew 25:16, Jesus speaks of talents. The revelation here is both striking and sobering: the talents He has placed within us are divine investments meant to multiply for His glory. But how often do we fail to ask, fail to recognize, and fail to work the talents that He has entrusted to us? As a witness to this truth, I can testify to the struggle of identifying and cultivating the talents God has given me. The world tells us to pursue passions, but God invites us to seek His Kingdom first, as Matthew 6:33 teaches.

My journey has been marked by small beginnings. Yet, I’ve come to realize that God calls us not to despise those beginnings but to trust Him to grow them into something greater. It’s said that mastery takes 10,000 hours—but with God, the timeline shrinks. What could take decades can happen in moments. I’ve seen it in my own life as I transitioned from uncertainty to purpose, leaving California in August of 2013 with nothing but a prayer, a hope, and the determination not to look back. Philippians 3:13 reminds us to forget what is behind and press onward toward the upward call in Christ Jesus. This theme has anchored me, pushing me forward even when the path was unclear.

Recently, I’ve entered a season of receiving—a time of harvest where the seeds sown in faith are coming to fruition. The Holy Spirit has personally revealed to me that I need not worry about what has already been determined for my good. As I move forward, God’s plans continue to unfold, proving that He indeed works all things together for those who love Him.

The widow’s jar of oil was enough. Jesus prepares a place for us (John 14:2), and though we may journey to places we’re not meant to stay, every step works for our good. As I step into new roles—managing investment properties, supervising teams, and discovering fresh talents—I see His purpose in the training and preparation.

Be encouraged. As Joshua 1 reminds us, we are commanded to be strong and courageous. God’s plans are unfolding, His provision is overflowing, and His call is upward. Let us not limit Him, but instead, pour out what little we have into vessels, trusting that He will fill them to overflowing.


Embracing Creativity: Spiritual Reflections and Innovations

Reflect on The Power of Creativity and Innovation

As I watched Dr. Matthew Stevenson’s teaching on “The Power of Creativity and Innovation,” I was reminded of my journey over the past five years. Dr. Stevenson emphasized that God is the original creator of all, a point that resonated deeply with me. I found myself transported back to Charleston, South Carolina, where I lived five years ago.

During his teaching, Dr. Stevenson referenced multiple scriptures, including Revelation 19, which describes “The Marriage Supper of the Lamb.” Intrigued, I delved deeper into this scripture. This led me to reflect on my own experiences from 2015 to 2016. It was around Thanksgiving of 2015 that I decided to stop eating meat. It took another six months for me to completely eliminate meat from my diet. During this supernatural fast, which stemmed from a place of brokenness, I didn’t eat any food for a year and two and a half months.

In this season of fasting, I believed I was preparing myself for marriage to a man. However, God had different plans for me. I was mending from family, church, and friends’ wounds and a failed relationship. I relocated to Texas in August 2013, purging my old life and seeking God through visions and prophetic dreams. One significant dream led me to John 1:23, and I stayed there for a while.

Reflecting on Revelation 19, I was struck by the importance of being spiritually prepared for the Marriage Supper of the Lamb. It’s a special and sometimes frightening time, knowing we must be spotless and blemish-free to be with our Heavenly Father. I often questioned myself, asking if I had been preparing adequately. Has Jesus been grooming me despite my flaws? Will I see my Heavenly Father?

Thinking about my family and friends, I pondered if we had taken full advantage of the time to align our relationships with the Lord. Earthly marriage pales compared to the divine marriage that awaits us. That year of fasting was like nothing I had ever experienced—a whirlwind of supernatural events and spiritual warfare, forever marking me.

God has called me to be His bride. I even have pictures of trying on dresses, each with its own story, proving that sometimes the dress chooses you.

The Marriage Supper is incredibly important to God, and I realized I hadn’t considered its significance as much as I should have. Life was happening, but that too is a story for another time. Despite being worn out by the world, I know I am blessed, favored, and called to do a special work in God’s kingdom.

Scars Gifts is the name God gave me, symbolizing the work He has called me to do. I know God has got me, and the trials and tribulations are part of His story through us. I had to take some time off from the workforce due to burnout, which is a very real experience.

As I continued to reflect, I asked myself whether life still goes on while waiting for Christ to arrive. This question may seem crazy, but it’s real. It’s terrifying that our judgment is upon us, and any day now, Jesus Christ will appear. Some may ignore this reality, while others will have to choose between religion and godly living. The supernatural is very real, and I almost forgot how real it is while living life as usual.

Once upon a time, I was on fire for God—bold, fearless, and extremely hopeful. Yet the Holy Spirit had to teach me a humbling lesson: it’s not about me; it never was and always will be about each and every one of us in HIS story. I haven’t forgotten who I am; I just know that rest is very important to the body, mind, and soul. I asked for rest, and He gave me peace instead.

I am blessed, yet I know there is more abundance for me in Christ Jesus, my Bridegroom. Just as God reminded us in Isaiah 54, “The Lord Will Marry His People,” He has married me. Unconsciously, I didn’t know it because of deception. Thank You, God, for pursuing me in a real way. I almost lost myself in those relationships.

I want to continue this blog, even though it might be challenging to be consistent. I plan to start with one blog post a week. I might be nervous about feedback, but we have to start somewhere. Our God started with nothing, and then there was light. We are light; you are light; I am light, so I am going to let my creative side shine. I pray you will shine too.